How will you ask for a prenuptial agreement?

As you prepare for your wedding day, you may come to think about the many benefits of creating a prenuptial agreement with your imminent spouse. For example, you can protect individual assets that you bring into the marriage. You can also use a prenuptial agreement to protect against taking on debt that your spouse brings into the marriage.

If you want to create a prenuptial agreement, it’s imperative that you share your feelings with your partner. This isn’t something you create on your own. They need to be on the same page.

Asking for a prenuptial agreement can be a challenge, as you don’t want to give the wrong impression. Here’s what you should do:

  • Open up: One of the biggest mistakes you can make is hiding you true feelings. When you do this, it will look like you’re trying to hide something. Be open and honest with your partner and they’ll reciprocate.
  • Talk about why you want a prenuptial agreement: There could be many reasons for this, such as wanting to protect the inheritance rights of children from a previous marriage. Be sure that your partner shares their feelings on what a prenup can do for them.
  • Listen: You have a lot to talk about, but don’t dominate the conversation. Take the time to hear out your partner, ask questions and provide as much information as you can. A one-sided conversation has the potential to scare your partner away.
  • Take a breather: It’s difficult to work through all aspects of a prenuptial agreement in one conversation. Leave plenty of time to hash out the details before your wedding day. This way, you can take breaks, when necessary, if the process begins to bog you down.


Do you need a prenuptial agreement?

There’s no right or wrong answer to this question, as it depends largely on your circumstances. However, with so many ways to benefit, it’s something you and your partner should strongly consider.

If you’re ready to proceed with the creation of a prenuptial agreement, learn more about the process, your legal rights and what you want to include.

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