Coping with your ex living with their affair partner

Child custody cases are difficult even under the best of circumstances, but when you throw an affair into the situation, they become even worse. Some parents who are going through a divorce have to deal with the fact that their ex has the person they were having the affair with living with them. This means that the children are going to spend time with that person, which can be hard to handle.

One thing that you have to realize in these situations is that you have to put your own emotions aside. Instead of focusing on how it makes you feel, consider how your children are faring. It is fully possible that they are safe and building a loving relationship with their other parent because even a horrible spouse can be a fantastic parent.

Think about whether your children are safe or not. If they are, your focus should shift toward encouraging them to make the most of the circumstances and toward building your own relationship with them.

Your children deserve to have a stable and loving environment to grow up in. Realizing that your marriage isn't going to be repaired but that the affair partner is going to have a part in raising your child is a tough pill to swallow. In this case, taking the high road is likely going to be the best option.

Give your ex and their new partner respect and avoid speaking ill of them around the children. Put forth an effort to ensure that your child knows they can love them both and enjoy spending time with them. You will have to let the past go and realize that you have a new life now if you are going to make this work.

When there are issues that creep up in these situations, you should turn to the parenting plan for information about how to handle them. For example, if you find out that your children aren't safe around your ex's new partner, you might opt to turn to the court for options to protect the children.

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