5 tips for helping yourself financially during divorce

You may never have expected for your marriage to end in divorce. After all, most people tie the knot with the intention of staying together for the rest of their lives. Of course, most people also know that many marriages do not reach this planned ending, as many difficulties can arise that make the relationships too difficult to carry on.

Now that you have found yourself in this situation, you may have many concerns about your future. In particular, you need to determine what your finances will look like once you only have your personal income to work with and how property division could impact your monetary situation as well.

Remaining financially conscious

It is true that divorce can prove to be a costly — but often necessary — endeavor. Luckily, many ways exist in which you could help yourself avoid preventable financial pitfalls. One way of doing so may even require thinking about aspects of your divorce that you did not initially think could affect your finances. Some steps that could help you address your finances and work to protect assets during this time include:

  • Closing joint credit accounts: Joint accounts may have been a good idea while married, but as soon as the decision to divorce comes about, closing those accounts could help you avoid getting saddled with more of your ex’s debt.
  • Open personal accounts: Similarly, you may also find it useful to open your own accounts. These accounts will help keep your incoming assets separate.
  • Avoid unprofessional advice: Though you may have friends or family members who have gone through divorce, you may not want to take their advice on what you should do. Even though they likely have good intentions, a wrong piece of advice could prove costly to you.
  • Consider yourself and your ex: You may want to come out of the divorce in the best financial shape possible and not care how your ex does, but it may prove wiser to consider what outcome could benefit you both. This may help cut down on conflict and wasted time, which could save money.
  • Create a budget: Because you will live on your own income and have your own expenses, creating a budget could help you better understand your financial situation and what you will have the ability to afford moving forward.

It can feel overwhelming to try to figure out how to remain financially afloat during divorce. Fortunately, you could obtain help from knowledgeable professionals who could explain your financial options as well as your legal options that may help your case proceed quickly and efficiently.


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